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Writer's pictureLinda Prock

Is it Appropriate to Invite Kids to Weddings?

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Grand Junction Wedding Venue discusses the pros and cons of this the tricky subject.

Is is Appropriate to Invite Kids to a Wedding?


Planning a wedding is an exciting time, but it also comes with its fair share of challenges. One of the most delicate topics that many engaged couples face is whether or not to allow children at their wedding. Opting for a more adult-only affair is perfectly acceptable. If you fall into this category and are unsure of how to communicate this to your guests, fear not! In this blog, we will explore some helpful tips on how to let your wedding guests know that children are not invited in a friendly way.




The first step in addressing this issue is to make sure that your invitations are crystal clear about who is invited to the wedding. Be specific and list out only the names of those whom you want to invite. Be careful not to use ambiguous language such as “and family” or “plus guest,” as this can lead to confusion. You can also include a note on the RSVP card or wedding website indicating that the event is adults-only. Being specific will help avoid any misunderstandings later on.

Next, consider reaching out personally to any guests who may be affected by this decision. Close family members may just automatically assume children are invited. A phone call or face-to-face conversation can go a long way in explaining your reasoning behind wanting an adults-only celebration. Expressing your reasoning is important, but you should also share your excitement for them to still be a part of your big day.

Providing alternative childcare options during the wedding festivities may be an alternative plan if you think you will be receiving lots of pushback about your no-kids policy. You could suggest local babysitting services or create a designated kids’ area at the venue where parents can drop off their children with supervision.



When it comes time to inform your guests about the no-kids rule, do so with kindness and sensitivity. Provide a polite note in your invitations explaining your decision and thanking them for understanding. Remember that ultimately, it is your day, and you have every right to set boundaries that make you feel comfortable and happy. Most guests will respect your wishes without question.


Flower girl in dresses. hair in pigtails. Flower girls are laughing.
Flower girls at Colorado Barn Wedding Venue located near Grand Junction Co



Thank you so much for stopping by our blog, we hope you found this information helpful. We want to use our blog to increase awareness and support for locally owned wedding venues. Locally owned wedding venues tend to provide a higher level of expertise, service and dedication. They also have far less turnover than corporate owned or investor owned venues. As you plan your wedding we hope you will consider a locally owned wedding venue like ours. You can find locally owned wedding venues on this wedding venue map. Below is a shout out to fellow locally owned wedding venues around the country!


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